Someone once said to me, "Do you want to know the best indicator of a healthy relationship? There is no sign of it on social media." Wise words, huh?
Lately, a bunch of my friends who are in failed relationships are feeling lonely because they’re single or about to become single. Don’t get me wrong, I have some married friends that are just as unhappy, as well as others who are happy to be living their lives exactly the way they want! (For those of you rocking this thing called life - you're awesome. Keep that shit up!)
How do I know these friends are lonely and miserable? Because they broadcast it constantly through all forms of social media.
I feel for these friends, really I do… but... I also sort of want to tell them to just suck it up. I’m sick of seeing their endless venting on social media. I’m all for venting over a bad day; we all have them. It’s human nature to want to vent. However, whining and complaining all the time doesn't make a person an underdog; it makes them seem... pathetic.